On Monday... August 2nd..... My Mom had intestinal surgery..... She is 78 and a ball of spit fire. She went through heart and lung tests to be sure odds were in her favor of making it through a "long" surgery, yet her condition was life threatening if left as is.
We all call her lovingly "GRANNY"...... She is the unwavering foundation of our family and her strengths comes without a doubt...from God....
My sister is a surgical nurse at this hospital and even though she wasn't in on the surgery .... she was right there. Myself and two of my daughters were able to work out shifts to stay with her......
I took morning shift to be with her as that is the BEST time ..... IF there is a best time to leave Tom home alone for a few hours......
Monday went fine.... Tom just whined a little about how I was gone FOREVER and he didn't like it...... The Tom before Alz.. would have been sitting there with me...... next to her bed fussing over her..... He loved Granny so much!!!!
So I pampered him the rest of the day and evening and told him I was sorry but had no choice and what a great job he did for Granny blah..blah.. blah..... He'd agree and whined some more..... lol
NOW to the rest of the world he tells them he is just fine... don't know what the fuss is all about... yes she (meaning me) will be going back up later ...... TOM knows what is politically correct to say BUT it's not how he feels....... and he knows I'll be saying "I'm not going anywhere...... YOU come first."
So before we went to sleep I broke it to him that I had to go up for a few hours in the morning till Kelly got there...... I told him Sandy felt it was a "privilege" to sit with Granny all night even though she just got off a 12 hour shift and would leave in the AM from the hospital back for another.
He agreed it was only right that I go BUT he didn't want me too so Kelly better hurry up and get there... blah... blah.. blah....
I kept calling him from the hospital and he was doing fine..... He didn't like it but he was okay.....
I stopped at the grocery store on the way home to get fixings for tacos... he LOVES tacos...... half hour from town to our place... as I drive in he comes STORMING out the door waving his middle finger at me in a very threatening mad way......
My thoughts were "oh shittt!"........ I open my door and the words coming out of his mouth matched the shacking of his middle finger at me.......
I couldn't make any sense of what was coming out of his mouth..... I finally pieced together........
There were three ladies here and one was from the bank and one was an appraiser and one wanted to buy our house...... he was scared to death.. didn't know what to say or do or what was going on...... some one wanted to buy our home.... they used the word foreclosure..... and went on and on and he didn't know what they were talking about and they wouldn't leave and I wasn't home to deal with them and take care of it and HIM.....
"MOM...Your suppose to be here all the time to take care of me NOT running all over the place... I was scared MOM and YOU weren't here.... "
He repeated that till I got a hold of some people and let them all have my two cents ...... it may have been four....... I was pretty mad right then and I don't think I was very nice and Tom than said...."Ya because you got mad at them hah Mom.....that wasn't nice what they did.....they really scared me... but you yelled at them hah....."
I have beware of DOGS signs..... no trespassing signs and private property signs at the end of my drive way?????? A gate is now going up and will be locked when I have to leave......
The people I talked to said it was a mistake... they had the wrong address... ?????
I don't buy it! "SHE" still wants to buy our place......???? N O T!!!!!! FOR SALE.
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Super women took a nose dive into the ground. She hit with such force she was buried for weeks. A heavy equipment operator was called in by God. He dug till he found her. She was still breathing but emotionally frail.
He took one look at her and he felt something he has never felt before. So when God said take care of her and love her......he did. He tried to walk away but couldn't....God filled him with an abundance of all the qualities he already possessed and said use these now to help her grow to her full potential as one day you will need what she has to give......
So he put her on a pedestal and kept her dusted and polished for years. Everyday he would polish and shine her and gave her everything he had inside as God instructed.
As the years slowly passed........and she shined like the brightest star in the sky......(He did an awesome job).....but now he was slowly losing himself.
She asked God with tears in her eyes " where is he going?" God said "he is going back to where he first came. It's a long hard journey and he needs you to help him get there safely."
I will give you an abundance of all you need to help him on his journey back to me, for that is where he came from.
So to those who ask why? Because I believe in fairy tales...He is my knight in shining armor...... He literally guarded me with his life.....
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Super women took a nose dive into the ground. She hit with such force she was buried for weeks. A heavy equipment operator was called in by God. He dug till he found her. She was still breathing but emotionally frail.
He took one look at her and he felt something he has never felt before. So when God said take care of her and love her......he did. He tried to walk away but couldn't....God filled him with an abundance of all the qualities he already possessed and said use these now to help her grow to her full potential as one day you will need what she has to give......
So he put her on a pedestal and kept her dusted and polished for years. Everyday he would polish and shine her and gave her everything he had inside as God instructed.
As the years slowly passed........and she shined like the brightest star in the sky......(He did an awesome job).....but now he was slowly losing himself.
She asked God with tears in her eyes " where is he going?" God said "he is going back to where he first came. It's a long hard journey and he needs you to help him get there safely."
I will give you an abundance of all you need to help him on his journey back to me, for that is where he came from.
So to those who ask why? Because I believe in fairy tales...He is my knight in shining armor...... He literally guarded me with his life.....
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