When our car bit the dust , we were given a van by a family member.... Soon after we got the van, by word of mouth, the car was sold.
We were in NEED of a snow blower but didn't get near enough out of the car to buy one......... But a few days later I got a call from a man saying he heard we were looking and he was selling a LIKE NEW snow blower..... AND the price was right.
THAN there was the tricky part of me looking at and getting it with out Tom's knowledge because at this point Tom makes things way more complicated than they really are because his executive function is severely damaged..... and then there is the stress and decline, followed by a melt down..... sigh! HIS not mine...not yet...that will come later...ha ha J/K
SO I sent Tom hunting, called #2 daughter "Sanj", she happened to be out and about and in the vicinity of..... She looked at it with me on the phone, we decide it's a deal, she barrows a pick up, gets the snow blower loaded, all in less than an hours time and is on the way out here with it when Tom comes home from hunting. (no birds - just cold)
He says "well, should we go look at the snow blower?" I said "in a bit...I'm waiting for a phone call! #1 daughter "Lisa" is in labor with her first baby." She lives 6 hours from us.......
So while we sat there I see Sanj driving in with the snow blower on the back of a truck.... The dogs start barking and Tom says..."WHO'S HERE?" I said..."It's just Sanj with your new snow blower!" "OH for heavens sake! You tricked me!" he said grinning.
He totally loved the snow blower, so while he played with that, Sanj made arrangements to go to be with her sister as she doesn't have to work till Friday night........
AND no.... I won't be able to go and see my new grand baby as I can not leave Tom home alone and no he would not be accepting of someone staying with him....... I am not in a unique situation..... there are thousands of us out here all in the same boat or worse..... That's why I say this disease effects so many lives......
THIS all took place on Wednesday A.M. Sanj made arrangements for her boys, packed and flew out early evening to be with Lisa and her husband Lester.
This morning no baby yet so Tom went to see if he could find a bird......... A short time later I look out the window to see what the girls are barking at and it's Tom followed by this "big ditch mowing machine".......
NOW what the heck is TOM up too?????
After a bit I finally figured out that the guy was a county worker who was mowing the county ditches and TOM was asking him about the county plowing us out this winter....... BECAUSE the 4-wheeler and plow just won't be able to do it another year nor do I think Tom has it in him to do it this year.
The county will plow you when they plow the county road if you let them know ........ You just pay a small fee each time.... SO WORTH IT! We have a quarter mile drive way.... And than the snow blower for up and around the house..... WHICH I can easily do if Tom isn't up to it.
SO did Lisa have her baby? Yes! A beautiful 7lb 15oz baby boy. 20 1/2" long at 12:45 this afternoon.......He doesn't have a name yet......BUT everyone is doing fine!
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Super women took a nose dive into the ground. She hit with such force she was buried for weeks. A heavy equipment operator was called in by God. He dug till he found her. She was still breathing but emotionally frail.
He took one look at her and he felt something he has never felt before. So when God said take care of her and love her......he did. He tried to walk away but couldn't....God filled him with an abundance of all the qualities he already possessed and said use these now to help her grow to her full potential as one day you will need what she has to give......
So he put her on a pedestal and kept her dusted and polished for years. Everyday he would polish and shine her and gave her everything he had inside as God instructed.
As the years slowly passed........and she shined like the brightest star in the sky......(He did an awesome job).....but now he was slowly losing himself.
She asked God with tears in her eyes " where is he going?" God said "he is going back to where he first came. It's a long hard journey and he needs you to help him get there safely."
I will give you an abundance of all you need to help him on his journey back to me, for that is where he came from.
So to those who ask why? Because I believe in fairy tales...He is my knight in shining armor...... He literally guarded me with his life.....
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Super women took a nose dive into the ground. She hit with such force she was buried for weeks. A heavy equipment operator was called in by God. He dug till he found her. She was still breathing but emotionally frail.
He took one look at her and he felt something he has never felt before. So when God said take care of her and love her......he did. He tried to walk away but couldn't....God filled him with an abundance of all the qualities he already possessed and said use these now to help her grow to her full potential as one day you will need what she has to give......
So he put her on a pedestal and kept her dusted and polished for years. Everyday he would polish and shine her and gave her everything he had inside as God instructed.
As the years slowly passed........and she shined like the brightest star in the sky......(He did an awesome job).....but now he was slowly losing himself.
She asked God with tears in her eyes " where is he going?" God said "he is going back to where he first came. It's a long hard journey and he needs you to help him get there safely."
I will give you an abundance of all you need to help him on his journey back to me, for that is where he came from.
So to those who ask why? Because I believe in fairy tales...He is my knight in shining armor...... He literally guarded me with his life.....
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